A NEW MODE :0 :( :)

Too often people wait until it’s too late to show those who have always been there for them how important they are to them! I always hear people going on and on about how they are exhausted of comping up with their parents and how they are a pain in the butt (for luck of better words) and every time i listen to them vent it gets to me, because i always wish that i were in their place but this time not venting about what my parents did, or what they didn’t do but appreciate that i still have them in my life. Those who always focus on what they don’t have instead of appreciating what they do have, will always be unsatisfied.I remember once someone was telling me about how their parents had not given them enough money  for their birthday and at the back of my head all i could think about was ‘dang you little ungrateful being’. Most of the time we are focused on not seeing the blessing(s) in front of us but instead need and want more, until a tragic event happens and that person is no longer in our lives and we start wishing and appreciate them then, but hey! it’s too late..You should never walk all over someone or take them for granted because the day you need them the most will be the day they will be gone.

I remember when my mum was sick and had been discharged from the hospital and all she wanted to do was spend time with me and hug me and just give me love, but guess what i chose to do other than spend time with her? Mh i chose to go for a sleep over at a friend’s place instead of staying with my ailing mother who only wanted to spending time with me, i wish i had known that those were the last days i was spending with her. Each time i think of that day, i ask God to help me be a better mother since i wasn’t the best daughter and i pray that Karma wont caught up with me. What i learnt is don’t take anyone for granted. The one who gives without hesitation & loves without judgement. The one who is faithful & honest.

God doesn’t say that we’ll always be happy. Sometimes, He teaches us by removing our comforts and giving us challenges to help us grow in our wisdom.So now that am all grown and let just say learnt my lesson(s).. i learnt that if you truly love and appreciate the ones in your life you should never let a minute go by without letting them know how you feel about them.

Appreciate more, Love more and remember sometimes it’s in moments of pain that we find the best motivation to push on, move forward, and grow a little more 🙂


Lots of love and i appreciate you:)


2 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. joseyphina
    Nov 16, 2016 @ 09:13:21

    Lesson well learned.

    Liked by 1 person


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